Man Warns Against Rush Marriages with Vietnamese Women

A man shares his experience of marrying a Vietnamese woman, advising others not to rush into relationships without understanding their partner's personality, living habits, and social circle. He regrets not checking for tattoos, drinking/smoking habits, gambling, debts, social media posts, and the number of male friends. He bought her expensive gifts and let her return to Vietnam after a sudden emergency, later discovering she couldn't be controlled by her family. He warns against giving money to avoid losing her and emphasizes understanding the person well before marriage.